You can install the instantclient downloading the files from Oracle.
You may have noticed that using the the installation instructions, you unzip the library on a directory but when you try to load them you will end with a Developer cannot be verified or something other similar message fron osx.
The problem is that the code is not signed by Oracle and osx marks it with a com.apple.quarantine. You can see the at sign at the end of the file anmes doing a
> ls -l -r-xr-xr-x@ 1 staff 5780 Feb 22 2019 BASIC_LICENSE com.apple.quarantine 57 -rw-r--r--@ 1 staff 1670 Aug 19 05:57 BASIC_README
The solution is to give exucution permissions to all files and then remove the extra @ attribute.
cd instantclient_19_3 chmod u+x * cd .. xattr -r -d -s com.apple.quarantine instantclient_19_3
Now you can load and use the library form your programs.
Taken from Gary Gordhamer.